# Manifestation Secrets: Unlock Abundance, Success, and the Power of Mindset with @HotHighPriestess

Channel: Unbothered Podcast
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WYesayMCxFA
Duration: 43 min
Language: English
Words: 9438
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[0:00] hi today we have a really special guest very excited very excited very excited a good friend of mine a good friend of Alexa's I would love to let Alexa do the intro okay I want you guys to meet my friend Sarah she goes by hot high priestess on Tik Tok and Instagram and she is one of the most special people I've met in my entire life she's a Tarot reader a manifesting queen her whole thing is like how to make money being yourself it's self-love it's selfrealization she's just amazing when I met her I knew I wanted her to be a good friend of mine she's magical and

[0:30] wonderful and I'm so happy we get to have some time with her here on the show so this is Sarah oh my God I'm going to cry Alexa that's so I'm so happy to be here I'm so excited to have you I heard a little bit about your story I'd love if maybe we could just kick it off by if you want to share it yeah okay I'm like mesmerized by your beauty but um oh my God anyways um yeah so I immigrated to this country and I grew up in Brooklyn New York um at a young age and growing up I think I started to witness very fast how

[1:04] income inequality was really present and honestly I didn't even know about it at the time because it was so normal the South Brooklyn New York experience was just very like it was just normal to struggle and I think it was almost like idolized you know the more you struggled it was kind of a symbol of like you're progressing you're creating something new for yourself and so um I just I didn't like it though so I like saw people struggle and and I was like is this really what life is about like is this the marker of success and it wasn't until honestly probably like high school

[1:37] I started seeing like real wealth in New York City and just in the country and I was like okay like why is it that certain people have certain outcomes in life and other people don't and is there a way that I can like take control of my reality and manifest something different for myself and I didn't call it manifesting at the time but I started to kind of dissect like the way people think and the way people move differently in different communities or people who are experiencing different realities so that's kind of when I started my manifesting journey it started with manifesting money but then also like manifesting love and it

[2:14] started very low-key and manifesting small things and now I'm manifesting ginormous things into my life and it's all worked yeah like it's worked I know when you came to my for you page cuz we did meet on Tik Tok it was that I'm a 23-year-old self-made millionaire and I manifested this for myself and I was just like what do you mean like what do you mean and then I got to know you and you really explained everything and I was like it's crazy because then I realized the things in my life that had come to fruition I thought it was just like all tenacity or all whatever but I

[2:47] realized at the end of the day it was pure manifestation and the second you kind of really taught me how to properly manifest my life became even better like our first meeting yeah Sarah came to my house with my old roommate we read tarot cards and we just talked about what manifestation really was and I thought I had been manifesting but I hadn't been manifesting at all until I met you okay so after I met you and you taught me about manifesting money it was my best financial year of my entire life really I went wrote about it in my journal how it was going to happen what was going to

[3:17] change and it felt like literally two months after everything went to [ __ ] I thought I hit rock bottom but I realized and we had talked about this it was just shedding all these things that were blocking me because so much abundant just entered my life like bad relationship ended Partnerships that weren't working with work ended and my whole life looked so different but it was because I was so clear with the things that we had talked about so I kind of wanted to share we went on like a brief rundown even just as friends talking about it but what we went over that changed everything for me wow okay

[3:47] well I'm just so grateful to hear that that went amazing because I think when we were talking you were you were struggling like a lot yeah you were like I literally don't know what to do I don't know what's coming I don't know how to manifest like this next level for you and I think that happens to a lot of people honestly where they Plateau or they hit like a ceiling and obviously I always think it's like a breakthrough for people but it could be so many reasons that people are hitting that sort of plateau and a lot of the times it's because we've reached our Max

[4:16] Capacity of like what we've normalized our nervous system to believe is capable for us or I think in your case it was because you were like I want something new I want this next level but you just didn't know exactly what it was at the time and so yeah manifesting wealth is like my favorite thing to manifest cuz I think it's the easiest thing that you could ever manifest truly totally cuz for me at the beginning I thought like oh I want to make more money because I want to be able to do this but then the second I started doing that I realized that I was actually just manifesting

[4:43] freedom and new experiences and it's crazy because when I shifted to manifesting more experiences financially did even better so yeah for anyone who's listening who Associates manifesting with what they've seen on Tik Tok or who doesn't really know what it is or hears it and they're like oh yeah I'm manifesting and maybe they don't really quite understand it how would you start to walk them through what you do yes okay so a lot of the work that I teach is very based in like psychology to be honest yeah I love that yes so because I studied education and I was studying to be a teacher and I noticed um one of my

[5:19] favorite things to learn about was growth mindset and why certain students outperformed other students basically what people found and what the researchers found was that students who believe beli they had the capacity to grow and believe they had the capacity to succeed always succeeded or outperformed students who didn't and so or students who were told they were limited yeah yeah and so it's just that simple shift of like being told this is possible for you nothing else is different already elevates a Student Success and so I was like okay interesting I wonder if I can apply that into my life and so I started doing a

[5:55] lot of deep diving into the subconscious mind and I mean I saw it in my own life life right I would hear certain numbers like $100,000 and I was like oh my God that's a lot of money you know I noticed how my body would react in those States or like what my beliefs were around money and I think to me the work that I teach yes it is spiritual but it is also rooted in the subconscious mind and it's rooted in nervous system regulation and I think you start to see the patterns of how the spiritual work that we talk about on Tik Tok and all of this guys

[6:28] are using it too and they're just calling it bio hacking so you know it's the same thing but I do think there is an element of magic to it to be honest I think you're way more likely to succeed if you believe in the magic um that I think is what differentiates just self-help versus manifestation manifestation believes in the impossible like the limit isn't just X it's everything 100% I got called delusional a lot when I was a little girl I also come from a place that's very different than a I was surrounded by and grew up with a scarcity mindset which I think is so

[7:05] limiting cuz when you grow up and you hear you can have this you're like oh yeah of course I can have that I deserve that and like you said then you're automatically like on that path to get that that's what people who grow up in wealth have that people who grow up in less fortunate circumstances don't have at some point I got surrounded by communities that had those things and I was able to see oh this is normal for them it's not out of reach it's not this like far-fetched delusional Dream It's just there every day and why can't it be mine if you grow up in an environment

[7:36] that was similar to mine what was the point for you where you broke out of that for me it was really interesting honestly the biggest like breakout for me was in college because well one I was around a lot of wealthy people I went to my dream school in Boston and I was like wow like this is you know I'm across the river from or wherever from Harvard and MIT I'm partying with all these kids whose's like parents are billionaire and it's just I started to see the level of opportunity that was out there and how easy they thought it was I was like wait like it gets to be easy like they

[8:09] just desire it and suddenly an opportunity appears and I was like wait if I'm around these people if I'm in this frequency like I think that I can call it in as well and for me it really started I mean it was stupid but at the time I was like okay let me manifest like more financial aid or like a covid stimulus check or whatever and I was like money is like literally coming out of thin air and I'm not working harder for this money it's just my energy is Shifting what I believe is possible and what I can attract is Shifting that's how it started for me this is like

[8:39] feeding my soul I love manifestation I do too it's the greatest thing in the entire world okay so when you started to call in money to yourself what were you doing like what were you doing to manifest was it just a thought process were you actually doing something in particular affirmations journaling what is it the manifesting meant to you at the time and what does it mean now honestly for me I I did a mental diet so I was like really tracking my thoughts and what I was thinking throughout the day and I was asking myself is this belief getting me closer to money or further away yeah so I was like okay if

[9:14] I see a bill in the mail or I see like a credit card charge usually people think like oh [ __ ] like I'm losing money but I started rewiring my mindset by saying every penny I spend is returned to me tenfold and so yes and so I just started to create this belief that like everything I do is bringing me closer to wealth and that it is constantly accessible to me I had to like condition my brain to believe there was an abundance of money in the world in ways that I couldn't even comprehend and I also a big thing that I started doing was like one of my methods that I teach

[9:46] is like [ __ ] the how so often times speak of scarcity mindset when you grow up and you know you don't see wealth you don't see how people acquire wealth you start to think okay there are no ways to obtain wealth like it's just you you're either born with it you're lucky you know that's what I told myself growing up I was like oh these people are lucky I came to this realization maybe I don't know how maybe the how doesn't even exist to how I will acquire wealth because I'm studying to be a teacher right now I'm going to make $40,000 a year at this point but I'm Desiring

[10:16] something so outside of that so I don't know how maybe my Realm Of Consciousness literally doesn't know how and so I started saying like [ __ ] the hell let the universe decide how it happens that's where the magic comes in right where you're like I release control and something that was so life-changing for me and I think a lot of people can relate to this is I was so stuck in masculine energy and having this belief it's I have to do more to make more I have to do something it's a checklist manifesting is a to-do list and it's not it's an energy right it's who do I have

[10:48] to be to acquire this money not what do I have to do and so I started embodying the energy of like my millionaire self the way she would think the way she would act you know what her daily routines would be like what her daily thought process would be like um how confident she would be like I'd show up on camera and like I'd have 10 followers and i' be like okay I have a million um you know and you know it's like slowly but surely like I went from like zero followers I got like to 10 and then I was like a 10,000 and within maybe a month I was at 100,000

[11:21] followers already on Tik Tok that's when I saw opportunity but the thing is when I started manifesting wealth Tik Tok didn't exist so it wasn't even an app yet I was in my freshman year of college and it wasn't until my sophomore year that Tik Tok became or some time around then that Tik Tok became an app and it's crazy how what you think or what is going to be your means to the exact desire you have it literally might not exist right now it literally might not exist or the person you're meant to talk to you don't even know they exist right now you know so being open to it's a lot

[11:57] of like releasing control I think a big problem is when you grow up in an environment like I did where you had no control your natural urge is like let me take control of this like you're constricting yourself you're holding on for dear life when manifesting is actually the Law of Detachment it's letting go it's trusting it's letting the universe be your sugar daddy but you have to be willing to let it spoil you you know I have an existential crisis like once a day and I'm like we're on a floating space Rog in the middle of who knows what with how many galaxies around us that we can't travel to that we can't

[12:28] see it's just like I'm supposed to believe that I'm here to be in this limited circumstance where I can't I my hands are tied I can't do all the [ __ ] I want to do why would I think that way when I'm surrounded by people who are who are doing the opposite who are achieving their dreams and I think part of that is getting to grow up in La yeah and seeing all of the people who are executing those ideas who are moving forward and you have to stop yourself from comparison also because I think that's a thief of manifestation but reminding yourself that it is easy if you want it to if you

[12:59] believe it is it's it's literally delusion that's my point of view like I have to be delusional in order to have things happen like I started a podcast with no experience in the podcast space only experience in social media but I didn't have a platform as an influencer and within a year it became my primary source of income and I was like that was delusion like the most competitive space yeah oversaturated Alexa is big on delusion too Alexa had a called delusion last in three episodes and now we're here um I think something that's really interesting about you is that you did not let your environment determine your

[13:39] thoughts and one of the hardest things about manifestation or at least in in my personal experience was believing those things for myself but having like a father who told me no you have to work hard for money you have to do this to get what you want I didn't believe that myself but I was constantly fighting off hearing that in my ear that I needed to get a real job that couldn't do acting that I couldn't do social media that that wasn't going to pay the bills being a content creator has been my job for 14 years and I still will sit around being like this isn't legitimate this isn't a

[14:07] real thing like what am I going to do and then I have to be like Alexa you knew when you were 10 11 years old that you were going to make a living telling stories and you thought you were going to be a TV writer but this thing that didn't even exist worked all the little clippings from all the magazines you put up on the wall ended up becoming your job I had no idea that's what I always say everyone's like how did you get this job as an influencer and I said when I was 10 years old I would get Teen Vogue magazines I'd rip out Marc Jacobs I'd

[14:33] rip out Dior I'd rip out all the brands that pay my bills now all the part that I have Partnerships with that have allowed me to see the world I would rip out all these places that I didn't even know existed all these things that I was like this isn't ever going to happen clipped it out put it on the wall and just said this is going to work somehow I'm going to do all these things and it worked so whenever I doubt myself I'm like when I was 11 years old I knew it I knew this was going to be my life I didn't know how it was going to be my

[14:55] life but I knew I was going to be in this out the France shaking my [ __ ] ass and here I am I knew I was going to be on a podcast couch with both of you guys I thought it was going to be my own podcast which failed and that's okay cuz now we're here yeah Alexa knew who she was from a very young age yes I did yes yes I did but that's why I'm obsessed with manifesting because it works it works and I think too we forget that it works like I I'm in the same boat like sometimes I'm and I teach this but

[15:21] sometimes I'll literally be like oh like I forget that I [ __ ] manifested it like what I have today and then I'm like oh this pathetic goal like what do you mean pathetic goal I'm bad like I I did it right and that's why gratitude is so important I always say gratitude is the currency of the manifesting world the only way to manifest something else in your reality is to be grateful for what you already have it's like pay money to one of my favorite quotes of all time I'm going to butcher it but have you guys ever heard of what I know for sure yes you gave it

[15:48] to me for my birthday one year [ __ ] great book it's Oprah Winfrey basically had a column for years someone asked her what she knew for sure she was like [ __ ] I don't know anything for sure and made it her mission to ask people what they knew for sure she then wrote a book called what I know for sure and it was a collection of refined columns one of my favorite chapters in that book she had Maya Angelou as her Mentor which I would literally chop off a limb to have can't believe she had that and she said that one day she was on the floor

[16:17] hysterically crying of her bathroom over a man and Maya said I want you to get up and I want you to say thank you and Oprah was like for what I don't want to say thank you I'm just I'm destroyed and she was like say thank you and the moral of the story was that she taught her gratitude is most important in your darkest moments because it's what's going to lift you out of that and I came across that chapter in one of I think the worst years of my life and that's when I started practicing gratitude and that's when I started seeing things that I wanted come to fruition so quickly and

[16:52] I did that for like four or five consecutive years I had a wonderful time and the second that I stopped mhm keeping you know writing gratitude down or saying it out loud I plateaued and then I declined and then I started losing opportunities and losing things and I think it's so important to remember when you're in the middle of it all this is something at some point you would have killed to have had even if it's as simple as like a new apartment you know you get used to what you have and you're like I don't like this anymore even just the freedom of being like I'm going to go to my pilates class

[17:25] I'm going to pick up my friend matcha on the way I have the ability to get to have the dispos ible time to get to take care of myself at Pilates and I have the income to be able to get my friend a matcha and pay for this class like I have moments like that where I'm like having a terrible day because I used to be the most negative person my friends used to say you should get a tattoo that says negative by Nature on your [ __ ] arm because that's who you are I was so negative I was just like embarrassed of everything and one day it shifted when I

[17:50] like my life went to [ __ ] that's when I like really leaned into gratitude and now my friends will say I have toxic gratitude cuz I just will even out loud I'll be like my God can you believe we live in New York City and we're walking around we're just drinking these like amazing cinnamon matcha and like now I'm like I should probably keep that one myself but yeah anyway like [ __ ] will go to [ __ ] all the time I don't even feel it anymore because I'm like oh that person did this yeah CU it's is a good idea like that person stole my idea yeah

[18:18] because I come up with great ideas all the time I love good luck so reframing I'm so grateful that this ended because it led me to this beginning that is lifechanging yes it is and I think hon I literally what you were saying about like I when you stop your gratitude practice it's like everything platea and I think sometimes you don't even know why you're in that state but you have to remember like what were you doing when you were at your at that high at the high right what were you doing and sometimes you forget because the other thing too is like you I mean a part I

[18:50] think a part of like obtaining success and like being able to manifest it is you have to normalize what you're trying to call in you have to like make it seem so normal and part of that is you start to maybe in part you lose the magic of like what it used to be to you yeah and sometimes after consciously remind myself like this was literally my dream and yeah so yeah that's a hard line like when I was really practicing gratitude as a discipline I literally had a jar I still have it I just haven't added to it and it's a problem but I added to it all

[19:21] the time I wrote what I was Greatful for I have journals full of gratitude and I wasn't somebody who kept a gratitude Journal before I hit a p peak of monthly Financial income that I never hit before and it was lifechanging and I was like wow this is crazy and when it stopped is precisely when I stopped being grateful but even when it was happening it was like this is unreal but I did know that I had to normalize it or else it was going to feel like this thing that was slipping through my fingers like impostor syndrome it's not actually yours that moment was like novelty I

[19:54] hired a financial adviser and she told me she was like well you're a really high earner at 25 so you're going to be hiring her for the rest of your life and when I heard that my heart sank and I was like that's not true that's a lot to live up to and then I was like oh my God why would I think that now I I went down a spiral and then I started losing clients I was like oh my God and I had to have a reset cuz I sent myself in this like negative mindset spiral where I felt like I it's not me who deserves

[20:19] this I someone must be mistaken yes how do you handle that so that's self-sabotage right and I think that's why I teach nervous system regulation so much about like normalizing things because if you don't feel deserving of what you have in your life or what um you're Desiring even even if you don't consciously realize it you're going to self-sabotage every opportunity to obtain it so I see this in like love a lot I to say I do this romantically all the time right it's like you see your dream guy show up and you're like oh suddenly I'm canceling the date like oh lost my concealer can't come anymore

[20:53] it's like you don't even realize why you're canceling the date you just but you're subconscious if it doesn't feel 100% % deserving and honestly if anything like I think you should feel as though that person is lucky to be in your presence you know if you don't feel that way then you're going to start to self-sabotage that opportunity and we see this in income all the time that's why when people win the lottery it disappears so just as fast because people don't feel deserving of it they don't know how to handle it they their nervous system isn't regulated to that amount and so that's why it's really

[21:22] important to like normalize things how do you handle that in love because obviously you want a good healthy relationship but if you're self-sabotaging and you're in this cycle where you're believing that you're not worth a good person because you've been dating people who have shown you bad size of themselves and you've started to believe that that's what you're worthy of and that's what you deserve how do you start tricking yourself into believing that you do deserve more to stop the whole self-sabotage cycle I can trick myself up to a certain point my thing is like you know I have really had a track record of dating people that

[21:54] haven't been very nice to me or if they were nice to me they just were not for me cuz I have dated some really nice people but that was kind of just it was almost a fluke that I dated someone nice because I was really good at dating people that weren't nice to me and recently it's like I do have I know what my worth is I know what I will and will not accept in somebody that I'm dating but it's weird because I was telling my friend I'm kind of developing like a bit of a crush on one of my friends and I was just telling him I was like I

[22:22] definitely have a crush on him and I really like all these things and he was I was explaining them to him and he's like why don't you just tell him I was like I literally can't because he dates girls that are really really smart all the time and my friend was just like what you and I was like no like why would like I'm just this like little blonde [ __ ] so I want to bring it to you why am I doing this to myself or it's like the second I get set up with another guy who's like amazing this person actually is like treating me

[22:47] properly this person is a kind person this person has been vetted this person will get in trouble if they are not good to me like this is a real Contender of a person that I should be giving a real chance to but I'll just immediately shut my thing is I will have manifested a date with a guy that is what I see in my head I've written down my list and I'm like oh my God like this is him yeah but I will be either my worst self I will overshare weird information or which sometimes they like and I'm like okay I guess there's someone for everyone yeah

[23:17] I don't know I just will freak out I'll be the worst you self-sabotage self-sabotage exactly what you're I will do all the work I'll manifest them I'll be in the places to meet him I'll meet him and then I'll like be around him Po and poof just ruin it what makes you what makes you not do that in relationships with other guys what do you mean what's the difference between why you're self-sabotaging with this person for example versus other people like what feels different internally for you with friends or with with the guys who maybe aren't treating you as well the difference there is like what if I

[23:48] actually like him and my feelings get Hur so there's more at stake there's more at stake there's more at stake and also with the like [ __ ] boy for example you go into it with the mindset of like he's kind of lucky that I'm here yeah he's so lucky that I'm here and that's what avoids the self-sabotage is it's you it's how worthy you feel of it right um and the difficult thing is like we know this is why I like therapy is tough because they'll make you aware of the problem but sometimes won't but here I'm saying I know that I'm worth the guy that I've have manifested even

[24:24] when I'm on the date I'm like I can get through this because I know that I'm worth this this is do you really believe that you should cut this this is weird why I think it's I think people relate to this I do because I I came to like okay so this is how I started manifesting meeting guys that actually were like who I wanted to be with and who I know were going to make me safe so basically I got to the point where I've been able to manifest meeting friends romantic interests people that I deserve in my life I spent a lot of time with

[24:57] myself knowing who I deserve to have as friends in my life and then eventually was like oh this is what I deserve in a partner and in a relationship and now I'm in the place where I'm really consistently meeting people that definitely fit the bill of like oh this is what I'm looking for in a partner I'm not attracting people that are not good to me I'm attracting people where oh my God yeah no I want to see you again I want to spend time with you but then it gets to that point where I'm like I know why somebody would be so lucky to have

[25:23] me why am I stalling I'm doing everything right and I'm now just stuck in this one place so you don't feel safe that's what it comes down to is like the reason we self-sabotage is because it doesn't feel safe in the same way that when you attract like a [ __ ] ton of money you're like this doesn't feel safe I don't know how to do taxes I don't know how to hold this can I contain this you know and the reason dating [ __ ] boys is okay is because it feels safe it feels you've normalized it and you've already dealt with it you've been on enough dates with

[25:53] [ __ ] boys that you just it's familiar so I was in a really similar situation where I would say like a year and a half ago I met this guy who was like on paper literally like dreamman like dream man ivy league Forbes 30 like everything I ever could have written down and imagined and more and at the time I was like overweight I just moved to LA like I just graduated college I was so [ __ ] lost and I was like oh I don't deserve this guy and I self-sabotaged it completely he like ghosted me whatever and I was like you know what I think

[26:27] there's something within me where there's more to me that I can become like instead of viewing it as like I'm missing something I'm seeing it as he's a reflection of the potential I have in myself and like there's more of who I can become and I want to get to the point where I love myself enough in you know the way that I am that I feel extremely deserving of this and so I went on this like year and a half you know selfhealing self love journey and a year and a half later I'm already in a relationship with someone else and he like came back out of nowhere but it's

[27:00] always right after you're like oh it would be obvious to me that this guy would want to like go out with me or like extremely deserving because I've normalized it because I've also been on dates now with guys like that multiple times so now my nervous system is like oh this is my like this is normal to me this is my expectation and I always say like what you expect is what you get so that and that's like the law of assumption is like what you're assuming is what you're going to attract into your life and so one of my favorite ways to stop self self-sabotaging is to like

[27:31] trick your brain into believing like not only are you worthy of this but this is your normal like this is every guy you go on dates with like every guy is this way 100% I love what you always talk about like with like how important it is to tap into feminine energy yeah that's something that I love that you bring up and I think you do such a good job of articulating it because it's something that I realized I hadn't even tapped in until probably like a year and a half ago I was in my masculine energy constantly which I still am in a lot but the shifts that you've taught me

[28:06] it's transformed my life in a lot of ways yeah so I want to talk about that a little bit more it is lifechanging and honestly this is a big I mean this has influenced like my career and my dating life and literally everything my friendships and I'm still on the journey too I almost want to talk about like this spectrum of Leaning into your feminine yeah cuz it seems like it's such a black and white concept but the more more I've been really practicing it the more I realize it is so so many different shades yes because there's like EXT there's there is a reality where you're almost too much in your

[28:37] feminine and I think everyone needs a balance like you need both I think the way I explain this too is like in the same way that in order to birth a child you need both masculine and feminine energy in order to create anything in your life you're going to need both I think the problem is especially as women we've been conditioned to believe that the only way to succeed and the only way to get anything in life is through masculine energy because of the patriarchy yeah and you know what I want you to get like into that but something on that subject is one of my best

[29:04] friends built a really successful company and before that she was a model and she was constantly relying on being extremely feminine to attract masculine energy to bring in financial stability and when she became a multi-millionaire she was like I literally might be a lesbian like I don't even think I like in at all I was like what and she was like yeah I think for all of those years I was attracted to men because they offered me safety and something I couldn't supply for myself until I realized I could give it to myself and then that shifted everything and now when I go on a date with a man it is

[29:38] such a different experience and I was like oh period like am I a lesbian maybe well looking at you girl I'm like oh but I would love to just dissect like what I don't even know when I'm in my feminine or when I'm in my masculine yeah I still can't tell running a business and like trying to do [ __ ] for yourself all the time I'm like we need organization we need a plan but that feels very like masculine and sometimes I just want to sit down and relax yes yes oh my God this is it I what I realized was I was like okay why am I

[30:13] being so hyper masculine and why are so many women now so hyper masculine why are so many of the mothers that we see now like super Super Hyper masculine and I realized hyper masculinity is a trauma response it is it's not normal with our hormonal Cycles to be working 24/7 right when we're on a 28 day cycle outed and nobody talks about that no one talks about it no one talks nobody talks about how we are in a society built for men when we are on Cycles where our hormones are consistently shifting and not built for the [ __ ] same thing every day chlo and are both in our ludal phase

[30:49] right now ohon why are we recording when we're ovulating okay preach speak to this yes and like I mean women require more sleep we know that scientifically proven thank you yes this is like this [ __ ] concept changed my life anyway so I grew up believing that the only way to accomplish anything was to be in control be the leader right like always work do do do do like my worth became defined by my doing and not my being and that's when everything shifted when I realized I don't subscribe to that belief anymore because especially in money I started realizing I was like wait manifestation as a concept is

[31:33] fundamentally feminine energy you know at the end of the day it is literally just embodying an energy and calling it into your life letting some Source provide for you right without necessarily doing anything right and I think that's the beauty of it um she's like doing snaps over I'm like yes this was such a powerful thing for me I think most women would say Feminine energy feels weak and that is so sad because feminine energy is the most powerful energy in the world it is the energy of creation it's in the womb it's what creates life it literally creates human life feminine energy is the most powerful energy in

[32:11] the world because it doesn't require like effort it doesn't necessarily require work right it just is it just is you just sit there and the grows yes and we've normalize this but I'm like the fact that you can bake a person in your body is wild and weird like the idea that I could just have a human being that's like all the sudden exists I'm like what do you mean that's not I mean and just like there people like what do you mean I can do that that's really weird it is crazy so the biggest shift that I made was I especially when you're a business owner or businesswoman and

[32:45] you're an entrepreneur it's like one I notice what a lot of what happens to a lot of women and I'm speaking from experience is we struggle to delegate and Outsource trust other people to deliver being in control being the one leading taking care of everything the other thing is like women feel like they constantly have to be on right we always have to be on and like if I'm not working 24/7 someone else is working 24/7 and they're going to outperform me why are you explaining the way that I think yeah well and that's the thing see I've healed in the workspace I've healed in the workp space

[33:17] I haven't healed romantically so it's so interesting we get to support each other through this journey Chloe there you go I'm glad you're here today so it's interesting because it's you know I think a lot of times people think feminine energy has to do with femininity which is like the way you appear right and feminine energy is I mean it has nothing to do necessarily with how you look it has everything to do with the energy that you embody some of the shifts that I made was I started telling myself like my worth comes just from my being it is a privilege to be in my presence not necessarily what I can

[33:48] provide for you but who I can be for you and I showed up with that energy in my business and it completely exploded like my business like this shift because there's only so much work that you can do there's 24 hours in a day right even if you're working every second of the day you being able to tap into feminine energy I almost view it as like passive income in the universe because it's like you're producing just through energy your your energy is creating you know value and I started telling myself I get paid to exist my existence pays for itself my presence is a privilege it's

[34:26] crazy how when you shift into that energy the opportunities to have literal passive income to make money in your sleep show up like this and I'm impacting more lives by doing so and for people who are listening who don't they're not very like woo woo or they're not into manifesting it sounds delusional and it sounds crazy but I swear to god it works give it a chance please yeah I really think the universe or the life that you experience for yourself is multile and I think whatever you believe will be and if you're sitting there believing that about yourself it shows up it finds a way to

[34:57] show up it's unexpected it's random it's not how you thought you can't plan it but it makes its way to you and you're like oh the butterfly effect like one thing happens and a year later you're like oh my God that happened for this and this and this and that now I have what I wanted exactly it's also I realize the success I found in my life has found me because I've just continued to put myself in good situations and do good to people I've been open I've connected people to other people that has allowed something four years later to happen or I saw somebody do doing

[35:27] this and I was curious and I asked I feel like my success in anything I've done in my life has all stemmed from being curious staying open and allowing the universe to send things for me while I put myself in good situations to accept them yes and I found that the more I manifested putting myself in rooms things come when you put yourself in certain places moving to New York City I knew I wanted to work in a different industry I said if I move to New York City I will be in more rooms with more people that work in these industries it just started streaming

[35:57] down in abundance oh my God this is I call this inspired action yeah it's again woo woo but it's it's so real like you hear it from the universe you feel this intuitive calling to do something and when you feel that I am telling you do not silence it that is like the universe dropping hints at you at where the magic in your life is where the quantum leaps are in your life right I think for each of us I moved to LA cuz I just felt a calling I had no idea what was waiting for me on the other side I moved here I was just graduating college

[36:30] I was studying abroad in Singapore I was coming from Singapore here by myself I knew not a single person I was like I don't have a job it's my business and I'm going all in on my business I got my dream apartment at the time and I like it's expensive and I'm just going to have to figure it out and because I went all in on me I have this belief that if you go all in on you the universe will literally move mountains to make it work for you 1,000 Buck every time the problem is people will hesitate they'll put one toe in okay you have to

[37:02] literally get to the island burn all the boats let them sink and that's the way you actually see results because if you're like the Earth yes Scorch the Earth and crops will grow to bet on yourself is to Scorch the Earth and crops will grow who is going to bet on you if you're not betting on yourself and also when you look around if you don't see any Joy anything you're like what is serving me here Scorch the Earth and crops will grow but you have to bet on yourself your life that you want is not going to come from the life that you're living like it's not okay

[37:34] Dr it's if I've learned anything it's like I used to not be a happy person I was depressed miserable person I cannot recognize who I was three years ago I was attracting people that just destroyed me inside I felt so empty and one day I woke up and I was like I need I ended up in Paris I never thought in my life I would ever live in Paris by the chances of the Universe I was destined to go there but like by the chances of the univers I ended up in Paris and I realized I have to Scorch the Earth because the life waiting for

[38:02] me on the other side is beyond my wildest dreams yes yeah and it worked and the people that it changed my like I need to do a full episode on how I changed my life and I did bring some people that I've known like Klo and I have been friends forever Klo is there waiting for me on the other side she was like oh hey look at this new life Alex was in a very different situation in mindset three years ago yeah I watched that Arc for you and it's really beautiful to see and not a lot of people before Scorch stuck around you lose a

[38:30] lot of them do yeah you do lose a lot of people but then there's people that help you scorch the Earth and say I actually know how to plant seeds on that Earth scorched being one of them let me help you sew your let me help you sew and grow this new life so your seeds yes there are always Angels waiting for you there's always human Angels every time I've put myself out there and done something crazy I've met a pivotal a pivotal person in my life I have a swimwear company called rehea Swim and I for a while wanted to get VC funding and try to disrupt the swimwear industry I

[39:02] did not go to an IV League school I literally stole my education I showed up to classes After figuring out what the schedule was at USC and UCLA that I liked I studied on iTunes you and that was a thing before course Sarah I like took Harvard Yale whatever I could that was free that I could access and then I took whatever classes I could find from Stanford on venture capital and I read books and I tried to familiarize myself with the terms that these men were using And I memorized them I literally had my friend show me flashcards until I knew all of the terms I cards for the VC and

[39:37] I found out about an event in Silicon Valley I drove my ass 5 hours up there with no invite I finessed my way into the room and I met a mentor that is it was this was 5 years ago is one of the most important people in my life today and brings me insane opportunities and it's because I said I am worth it I deserve to walk through this door I didn't grow up in these rooms but I'm going to break my way into the room no matter what it takes like I'm going to [ __ ] mow the door down with an axe and you're going to welcome me in there

[40:10] cuz you're lucky to have me there you need me in there and then knowing how to hold your own in these conversations and just feeling like you belong changed my life yeah wow changed my life and I think that if you can it doesn't need to be that traumatic but if you can take that mindset and apply to little things in your life that's how you open up doors that your circumstances that you grew up in may not have previously allowed or presented to you that is so good not me going on a r like bust the door down amazing three little manifestors sitting on a tree hyping

[40:44] each other up wow you know I always say to myself I'm like I owe it to myself to go all in because like I think sometimes we forget that this is like our one [ __ ] chance like there is no other chance and I think like I just I don't know I just can't imagine playing it small you know like to look back and be like what could life have been what was the alternate universe I could have lived in the people I could have met the kids I could have had I mean it changes everything one decision and when you feel called it's like it's your sign you

[41:17] know and so I I really relate to that like just even feeling called to go to college for me too I mean that was a huge risk but yeah again or playing it small Singapore Singapore yeah life is a video game we are playing The Sims and we all have the code mother load we do just literally call motherload into your life and call it a day yes I can't imagine this is what I think about whenever I get scared cuz I still get scared am I going to be 90 and on my deathbed or not even on my deathbed but just not able to do the things that I'm

[41:48] doing now and be Reminiscing on my life and be sad or disappointed that I didn't take the risk and just be like yeah I I really played it small is that what I want for myself and if I was that 90-year-old version of me and I got one opportunity and go back to being 25 or 28 or 30 or 45 whatever what would you do with your life you live it so much [ __ ] differently right so why not do it while you have this shot as opposed to looking back with regret and being like damn I should have taken more risks I should have believed in myself I

[42:18] should have known that I could do it even if you fail it opens up another door inevitably I saw this Tik Tok and I forget who said it but they were like if you were in a movie right now and you were the main character what would everyone be yelling at you to do ooh I saw that T I think I saved that oh my God [ __ ] I [ __ ] love this conversation we are going to have another one oh oh we get to film one on Sarah's now too it's incredible I listened to like five episodes before you came on I was listening to you while

[42:48] I was getting work done I was like she's right like making the outline for what this podcast is becoming while listening to you and it was so helpful so I can't wait to talk to you on there I could listen to you talk for hours well the first time we met we talked for S hours yeah yeah it's crazy I don't blame you yeah I mean I'm obsessed if you love Sarah as much as we do please go find her on Instagram and Tik Tok asot High Priestess and on Spotify Apple wherever you get your podcast the Priestess perspective yay thank you for having me love you than you for being here here

[43:21] the energy in the room is just we've got a higher vibration going I'm going to start crying I'm soate I know this is this episode so good

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